Okay, let's name these ladies. Doris for the first one, Yvette for this lady? I'm open to ideas.
Always with the struggle to remain "loose", and rarely fully achieving it... this lady has elements of it, but no cigar. As with most of my creative endeavours, including singing, I simply never do it often enough to get where I want to go. Something comes up, life (or something like it) rears its ugly head, and before I know it I'm off doing something else. I realise that this is within my power to change, at least to a certain degree. Oh yes, I do realise.